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August 29, 1958
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New York, NY 10003
We are all looking for unconditional love. Most of us never got it. When we fall in love we think, "Now, finally, here is someone who will give me the (unconditional) love I've always wanted."
So we marry. Then it starts---because we're not programmed for love. Instead, we are programmed to duplicate our parents' relationship. Because of this programming, even if we found someone who loved us unconditionally, we would have to push them away.
How can we attract what we are not programmed to receive? We can't---until we take a conscious look at what we are programmed to attract. Only then can we change our lives.
This program is designed to help us do just that.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:
Sun 6 Vir 12 Pluto 2 Vir 10
Moon 15 Pis 38 N. Node 23 Lib 05
Mercury 25 Leo 23 Asc. 18 Ari 13
Venus 17 Leo 09 MC 9 Cap 34
Mars 22 Tau 04 2nd cusp 24 Tau 35
Jupiter 28 Lib 33 3rd cusp 18 Gem 46
Saturn 19 Sag 08 5th cusp 1 Leo 58
Uranus 13 Leo 30 6th cusp 1 Vir 55
Neptune 2 Sco 35
Tropical Placidus Daylight Savings Time observed
GMT: 02:00:00 Time Zone: 6 hours West
Lat. and Long. of birth: 41 N 35 36 87 W 20 47
Aspects and orbs:
Conjunction: 10 Degrees
Opposition : 10 Degrees
Square : 10 Degrees
Trine : 10 Degrees
Sextile : 7 Degrees
She was an extremely beautiful woman in her mid-thirties. She was also an extremely successful business woman---equal to or better than many men in her profession. She'd come to me for a consultation because she was considering remarrying. Although her two previous marriages had been unsuccessful, she longed for a man with whom she could be happy. She was in my office because she honestly wondered if that were possible.
In the course of the consultation, she shared with me that her mother was successful in her career. Message: BE A SUCCESS IN YOUR CAREER. She also shared that her mother had been married several times, so she was programmed for multiple marriages. Each time my client married, her mother encouraged her to leave her husband. Her mother's message was: MARRY, BUT DON'T STAY MARRIED. As a child, my client saw her mother win every argument with each of her husbands. Message: ARGUE WITH MEN AND WIN. My client's father was strong, but distant and unaffectionate. Message: MEN ARE DISTANT AND UNAFFECTIONATE. My client created this situation in her marriages and felt unloved by her husbands. Each of her stepfathers put up a good fight, but ultimately they left. Message: MEN WILL PUT UP A GOOD FIGHT AND THEN LEAVE.
The combination of verbal and non-verbal messages produced a woman who resented men, yet kept turning to them to make her happy. Because she was programmed for marriage to be stormy and her husbands to leave, she created just that. She married strong men and wound up emasculating them. She was looking for love, but her programming would not let her keep it.
Her fiancÚ played right into the program. He was stubborn and determined. He was not a success in his career, although he had great potential. Each time he came close to success, he'd fall short. His ambitions were high, but he became a dilettante. He made a great impression, but had no money. His programming explained it all. At one point in time, his father had been very important and successful in his career. When the young man was just a boy, his father had been nominated for an extremely prestigious award. Winning this award would have meant financial security for the rest of his life. Unfortunately, another nominee was selected as the winner. From that point on, the son was programmed to COME CLOSE, BUT FALL SHORT, and that's exactly what he did in every area of life.
His parents had not gotten along. His proud, stoic father had given him the message that THE WOMAN SHOULD PUT THE MAN FIRST. He also felt that MEN WERE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN WOMEN.
These two were programmed for each other. Here was a chauvinist up against a powerful woman; a business failure up against a business success. Neither one, however, was programmed for a warm, loving relationship, though that's what they both wanted. When faced with a situation like this, the first reaction might be to discourage a marriage, since it seems doomed to failure. Yet, these two people were attracted to each other precisely because they could give one another what each was programmed to receive. And, in spite of their programming, they loved one another. This love could, if they chose, be the impetus to help them see and release their programming and create a warm, loving relationship.
This situation occurs all the time. Our hidden messages are so deeply ingrained in our subconscious that we respond to them unknowingly. For example, if one of your hidden messages is that YOU CANNOT BE HAPPY WHILE A FAMILY MEMBER IS UNHAPPY, you will find that you are never happy because there is always someone who needs your help. Even if you are miles away, just knowing that a relative might be unhappy about something can upset you. After awhile, this message can be triggered simply by the suggestion of happiness--as soon as you feel good you have to feel bad. This totally destroys your enjoyment of life.
Another common message is that YOU WILL NEVER BE AS GOOD AS YOUR FATHER (OR MOTHER, OLDER SISTER, YOUNGER BROTHER, ETC.). If you received this message, you will see to it that you fall short of your goals so as not to surpass him. If he has not been much of a success in his life, where does that leave you?
We have been told that if we will live up to the potential indicated in the natal chart, our lives will work. Why, then, are so many lives not working? The answer is simple: they ARE working, or at least the hidden messages are working, running our lives. By knowing what these messages are, we can be free to be our highest and best, to be limitless.
YOUR FATHER'S MESSAGES
Your father takes you from the security of the home and teaches you how to act in society. He helps you form your public image, the face you want the world to see. The Sun represents your father.
Sun in Virgo:
Your father taught you that perfection is its own reward. He taught you to work and worry about the details.
Sun in 6th house:
The center of your life is your work and you have to be busy at all times. Your father taught you to take pride in what you do, to be the leader of any project you undertake, but not to be above tending to the small details. He was either proud of his health--or lack of it--and passed this along to you.
Sun in hard aspect to Moon:
You are programmed to have difficulties in interpersonal relationships because of difficulties between your parents at the time of your birth. Your tendency to clash with people can affect your health.
Sun-Mercury angle more than 10 degrees:
Your father taught you to stand back from situations and people in order to see them objectively. This applies to him as well. Because of your objectivity, you are able to converse with others without constantly bringing the conversation back to yourself and your opinions.
Sun in soft aspect to Neptune:
Your father taught you spirituality and selflessness. He is kind and willing to serve. You see only the best in people because you see only the best in him--and he taught you to see only the best in yourself. He is an inspiration to you.
YOUR MOTHER'S MESSAGE
The most important person in your early years is your mother. Because the Moon rules both the mother and the subconscious, her influence reaches you on the deepest levels. It might be said that since the subconscious is the repository of all past-life experiences, your mother triggers this memory, which is why her influence is so strong.
Your mother's main message is to look for emotional security. The house in which the Moon is placed natally indicates that area of life in which you hope to find this security. You received this message either directly or indirectly. She told you where to look for it, and you spend the rest of your life looking for it where she said it would be. The sign in which the Moon falls describes your mother, as do the aspects to the Moon. The aspects also tell you if it will be easy or difficult to find the security you seek. Because the Moon is changeable, the promise of emotional security is elusive. Perhaps this is why you keep returning to the place where it is supposed to be, hoping it will be there this time.
Keep in mind that these messages are not necessarily verbal. You can receive them from her actions as well as her words; by her presence as well as her absence.
Moon in Pisces:
Your mother can be either a dreamy romantic or an escapist. She taught you to either turn the other cheek, knowing it is the nature of love to forgive, or to be a martyr. She either chooses not to see negativity around her, preferring to look at the beauty of life, or she denies its existence and escapes into wishful thinking. There is a quality of make-believe about her which may be her emotional security. You both want a cause, a dream to live for. This is a beautiful spiritual placement for the Moon, giving great inspiration. Your greatest security comes from totally serving God.
Moon in 12th house:
Your mother taught you to play a behind-the-scenes role, and possibly even to escape through food, drink, sleep, etc. Her influence is hard to see clearly since she is posited in the subconscious twelfth. She taught you to fulfill your emotional security needs by being alone, possibly by her example. This can cause you to guard your privacy tenaciously. She may have helped you on spiritual levels and in metaphysical study Your true freedom comes from letting go of wishful thinking.
Moon in hard aspect to Sun:
Conflict between your parents at the time of your birth created a pattern of difficulty in your interpersonal relationships. You are not programmed to get along with others or for things to flow smoothly. This can affect your health.
Moon in soft aspect to Mars:
You and your mother deal directly and forthrightly with each other. She taught you to channel your energies positively without wasting them. As a result, you are able to get things done quickly and easily. You have a good rapport with both men and women. You function well in competitive situations.
Moon in hard aspect to Saturn:
Your mother is moody and depressed, and gave you the message that you're not supposed to be happy while a family member is unhappy. Also that you are somehow responsible for their unhappiness and, therefore, responsible for making them happy by being unhappy yourself. It's hard for either of you to have fun---life holds too much responsibility. There can be walls up between your mother and her family, and between you and your mother. You are afraid of the responsibility and emotional commitment required in a close relationship. This can make you cold, distant and unaffectionate. Lack of love can depress you and lead to self-pity.
MESSAGES FROM AUTHORITY FIGURES
Saturn is reality and often, restriction. In the natal chart, it can represent your mother, father, grandparents, family ---anyone who imposes a restrictive influence on your life and tries to teach you reality through discipline.
Saturn in Sagittarius:
The authority figures in your life may have been frustrated because they were not free, yet accepted this philosophically. They taught you to be judicial and balance man's law with God's law.
Saturn in 9th house:
The authority figures in your life may have indicated that God is wrathful, vengeful, and should be feared. Their philosophical approach was probably a traditionally religious one. Your philosophy involves respect for and fear of power, and you take your beliefs seriously.
Saturn in hard aspect to Moon:
Restrictions imposed by the authority figures in your life gave you the message that you are not supposed to be happy while a family member is unhappy. Inherent in that message is the implication that somehow, you are responsible for their unhappiness and must, therefore, make them happy by being unhappy. You are afraid to get in touch with your emotions. Instead, you suppress them.
Saturn in soft aspect to Mercury:
The authority figures in your life taught you to think practically, logically and conservatively. You can analyze situations objectively.
Saturn in soft aspect to Venus:
The authority figures in your life gave you a secure feeling of being loved. As a result, you are loyal in love and able to maintain a long-term relationship. You do not take love lightly. When you love, you willingly assume your responsibility for the relationship. You are not looking for wild, exciting love, but steady, reliable love.
Saturn in soft aspect to Uranus:
You are able to break loose, be yourself and still not lose your dignity. This is because the authority figures in your life gave you permission to do so. You are a combination of the traditional and non-traditional, and can combine the best of old and new. You can deal with the masses and still remain in charge of your life.
Saturn in soft aspect to North and South Nodes:
Good rapport with authority figures in past lives makes it easy to get along with them in this one. You will learn the lessons that society has to teach. You can attain power and use it wisely.
Pluto is another indicator of your mother's ---and sometimes your grandmother's---message. Pluto represents total change, control, and transmutation. It is the all-or-nothing planet. Pluto deals with all the mysteries of life: life itself, where it originates, where it goes when it leaves this plane. Pluto and the aspects it makes in your chart describe your mother's message about and your attitude towards sex.
Pluto's house placement indicates where there can be a power play with your mother, where you will both try to dominate and control, and where you can bring about a total transformation. You control because you don't trust. You don't trust the people who rule the house in which Pluto falls.
While Pluto represents your mother's message, it can also represent your grandmother's. Use whichever word applies to you.
Pluto in Virgo:
Pluto in Virgo gives you a different attitude about work, health and how to serve others.
Pluto in 6th house:
Your mother's attempt to control your work makes you determined to be in control. The need to constantly maintain this control and/or the inability to forgive those who control you can affect your health, especially the elimination or reproductive areas. Forgiving them will free you of vindication and heal you. There can be a total change in your work at some point in your life. You can become involved in something which was not invented or discovered at the time of your birth.
Pluto in hard aspect to Sun:
At the time of your birth your parents were involved in a power play. There was a lack of trust between them. They could not forgive and forget. This led to their resentment and vindication, which set the tone for your own relationships. You are manipulative and controlling, and find it hard to trust others. You do not forget past hurts. You want to dominate and lead, and resent those who do.
Pluto in hard aspect to Mercury:
It may be hard to communicate with your mother because you cannot trust her not to entrap you with your own words. This can extend to others, making you suspicious and mistrustful. Your mind is quick and deep, but negative psychic impressions can block the flow. You may have a hope-for-the-best-but-expect-the-worst approach to life.
Pluto in soft aspect to Jupiter:
You and your mother are good friends. You may share similar philosophies and/or give each other the space to have your own opinions. She taught you to be optimistic, generous and friendly. As a result, you are well-liked. You have a natural understanding of universal law that gives you peace--you know that everything is working out for the best.
Pluto in soft aspect to Neptune:
There is a positive psychic bond between you and your mother. Your spiritual side is active, and you have vision and insight.
THE FOURTH AND TENTH HOUSES
The fourth house relates to home, family and your deepest emotional security needs. It describes the parent to whom you look for the fulfillment of these needs. Traditional astrology gives the mother rulership over this house because she has been the nurturing parent, the one who stayed home and cared for the family. Today, though, mother often pursues a career, and it is father who provides the emotional security.
The tenth house rules your career, your public image and the authority figure(s) in your life. It is your father who teaches you how to get along in the world outside the home. As such, the tenth house traditionally relates to him.
There are no set rules as to which parent rules which house. Sometimes one parent fulfills both roles. Other times the parents reverse roles. Each chart must be analyzed individually to determine which parent rules the fourth and which rules the tenth.
The relationship between the fourth and tenth is important because your home, family and the security they give you determine how you will do outside the home. If you don't get what you need from one parent, you may turn to the other, who may or may not be able to fulfill your needs. Lack of emotional security in the home can lead to compensation in the career. The career, then, can become a parent replacement.
The signs on the cusps of the fourth and tenth houses add another dimension to understanding your parents. When trying to determine which house is which parent, it is helpful to exaggerate the descriptions enough to allow yourself to be able to make a distinction between the two.
Cancer on 4th Cusp:
Since Cancer and mother traditionally rule this house, there is a good possibility that your mother rules your fourth. This parent is sensitive, emotional, very attached to the home and family, and takes things personally.
Capricorn on 10th Cusp:
Since Capricorn and father traditionally rule this house, there is a good possibility that your father rules your tenth. This parent is conservative, disciplined, stoic, and concerned with what the neighbors will think.
THE ROVING DELEGATES
The signs represent principles to be learned. The house cusp on which a sign falls tells us the area of life in which that principle will be learned. Usually, the principle manifests in more than one area of life, since the ruler, or ROVING DELEGATE of that sign, carries the message to another house.
It makes no difference what sign falls on the cusp in question. We simply link the sign with its ruler's house position. For example, with Virgo on the fourth and Mercury in the eleventh, the ruler of the fourth is in the eleventh. The same thing is true if Taurus is on the fourth and Venus is in the eleventh. The same concept applies in each case.
The house in which the fourth or tenth house ruler falls gives us more information regarding that parent's messages.
Ruler of 4th house in 12th:
This parent's influence is hidden and difficult to discern. The message is to find security in privacy. He or she could have directed you toward the spiritual, or the make-believe.
Ruler of 10th house in 9th:
This parent influences your philosophy and attitude toward God. Your philosophy may involve power and authority. He or she taught you to expand your career and your horizons in general through study or travel.
A FINAL WORD
Now that you've looked at your programming, you may be wondering if it will control you forever or if there is something you can do to change it, to move past it. There is. You can release it and yourself to God in complete faith and trust and just BE. When you come from BEING, you are coming from unconditional love. You see beauty everywhere. You are one with the whole and know that you are protected and loved.