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The Friends Compatibility Report
Birth Data for Paula:
September 17, 1966
Birth Data for Tonya:
November 12, 1970
151 First Ave #109, New York, NY 10003
This Friends Report is divided into 4 chapters.
Chapter 1 describes your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you have a close or long-lasting relationship. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person's personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you depend on each other in a business partnership than if you are casual acquaintances.
Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of open communication and friendliness are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship growing into a close, long-lasting friendship. However, if friendliness and harmony between you are hardly mentioned at all, your relationship will be a more formal, less personal one and you probably won't think of one another as close friends. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful.
Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise over time if your relationship is a long-lasting one.
If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Paula is more aggressive than Tonya, and another statement stating that Tonya is more aggressive than Paula, means that you alternate roles, with Paula sometimes being the leader and Tonya being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.
To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, if your relationship is strictly business-related and close, personal friendship is unimportant to both of you, then it will not concern you if there is little warmth in the relationship. However, a lack if warmth and sympathy, or a tendency to be critical and judgmental of one another, is a more serious problem in a parent-child relationship. You may also want to order a Natal Report for each of you. The Natal Report describes your individual traits. The material in Chapters 2, 3 and 4 of this report describes the dynamics of your relationship, but does not describe your individual natures.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of
the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Paula:
Sun position is 24 deg. 23 min. of Virgo
Moon position is 5 deg. 44 min. of Scorpio
Mercury position is 0 deg. 43 min. of Libra
Venus position is 10 deg. 51 min. of Virgo
Mars position is 14 deg. 37 min. of Leo
Jupiter position is 28 deg. 26 min. of Cancer
Saturn position is 26 deg. 25 min. of Pisces
Uranus position is 20 deg. 18 min. of Virgo
Neptune position is 20 deg. 00 min. of Scorpio
Pluto position is 18 deg. 29 min. of Virgo
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 18:00:00
Time Zone: 6 hours West. Lat & Long: 34 N 47 02 91 W 53 59
Positions and Data for Tonya:
Sun position is 20 deg. 23 min. of Scorpio
Moon position is 18 deg. 41 min. of Taurus
Mercury position is 0 deg. 12 min. of Sagittarius
Venus position is 15 deg. 51 min. of Scorpio
Mars position is 15 deg. 04 min. of Libra
Jupiter position is 17 deg. 20 min. of Scorpio
Saturn position is 19 deg. 02 min. of Taurus
Uranus position is 11 deg. 39 min. of Libra
Neptune position is 0 deg. 14 min. of Sagittarius
Pluto position is 29 deg. 01 min. of Virgo
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 04:22:00
Time Zone: 8 hours West. Lat & Long: 45 N 31 25 122 W 40 30
Note: Birth time of at least one person is not precise.
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Paula's Sun in Virgo and Tonya's Sun in Scorpio:
Tonya is more willful and inclined to extremes of emotion or behavior, whereas intelligent restraint, caution or timidity characterize Paula. Strong feelings and instincts motivate Tonya, while Paula is more apt to act on logic.
Paula is very precise, exacting, more of a perfectionist, and more orderly than Tonya, whose mind operates in a much less linear way.
You share a tendency to be hard on yourselves, are prone to guilt and self-chastisement, and also have a strong interest in self-improvement or self-transformation.
Paula's Moon in Scorpio and Tonya's Moon in Taurus:
Both of you are rather obstinate and inflexible, and cannot be easily moved once you've made up your mind. Nor does logic or reason work wonders with either of you, when you decide you want something. When the two of you lock horns, it's a matter of which of you wears down first!
Of the two of you, Tonya is the more practical and down to earth. A loving, stable home, creature comforts, and peaceful relationships are Tonya's ideal. Tonya has a much simpler emotional nature than Paula, and is much more easily contented.
Paula's feelings run very deep. Paula loves intensely, but is also capable of tremendous animosity and hostility if hurt or betrayed. Paula has a very private, secretive side and often hides feelings or withdraws from people as a means of self-protection. Anger, guilt, and jealousy are emotions Paula frequently keeps hidden inside.
All of this is rather incomprehensible to Tonya, though Tonya does share with Paula the tendency to be possessive.
Paula also demands much more from a friend in terms of emotional involvement and loyalty. Paula doesn't accept anything at face value, and it may seem to Tonya that Paula is always probing, analyzing feelings, and thereby making unnecessary trouble.
There is a strong attraction between you, and you can be very, very close, especially if you learn to appreciate one another's ways.
Both of you have Sun conjunct or in hard aspect to Saturn:
Both of you possess and innate capacity for much self-discipline and self-control, which at times leans towards excessive self-denial, personal inhibitions, an overly serious, burdened feeling about life, and a harshness toward yourselves. You share a tendency to feel inadequate due to very exacting, perfectionist standards you place upon yourselves. In order to fulfill your ambitions and purpose in life, you both may have had to give up a lot, including parental approval or support from outside of yourself. This enables you to have compassion for one another's struggles in life, if you are open with one another. However, you each tend to keep a lot inside and erect barriers between yourselves and other people.
Jupiter & Saturn hard for Tonya, soft or conj for Paula:
Tonya tends to seesaw between optimism and discouragement, whereas Paula is steadier, more patient, more realistic, more graceful in accepting necessary limits and structure. Learning to live in the world and to take its imperfections or inherent difficulties in stride, is something Tonya must work toward, and Paula has already mastered to some extent.
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Tonya's Sun Conjunct Paula's Neptune:
You trigger one another's imagination and idealism. When it comes to practical matters and tangible, practical accomplishments, the two of you fail to coordinate effectively. Many times you fail to really understand each other, and it takes a long time for you to overcome superficial, stereotyped perceptions of each other.
Tonya's Moon Opposition Paula's Neptune:
You enjoy sharing your hopes, ideals, social concerns, dreams and fantasies. You work well together in areas that require great imagination, such as the arts and music.
Paula's Mercury Conjunct Tonya's Pluto:
Your conversations tend to be probing and deep. You enjoy uncovering the underlying motivations and causes of a situation. Frequently what starts out as a light, friendly conversation ends up as an in-depth psychoanalysis of each other! Tonya may dominate your conversations and at times tries to force Paula into agreeing or believing whatever Tonya wants!
Jupiter Mutually Aspects Neptune:
You bring out the Dreamer, Idealist, or Gambler in one another. Great hopes and expectations for the future, spiritual explorations, journeys, Quests, a shared vision, dreaming the Impossible Dream together: this is a fundamental aspect of your relationship. The inspiration and sense of unlimited possibilities is the upside of this. The down side is a tendency to see everything in too rosy a light, to become irresponsible, to have over-inflated expectations, and to use poor judgment when you are together.
Paula's Jupiter Trine Tonya's Neptune:
There is a strong psychic or spiritual connection between you, a sympathetic rapport that enables you both to be especially generous, tolerant, and accepting of one another. Your ideals and beliefs are in harmony. Your faith, optimism, imagination and hopes and plans for the future are stimulated by being together. However, you may simply dream, speculate, or spin fantasies rather than actually do anything concrete. You tend to be enjoyably lazy and indulgent together.
Tonya's Jupiter Conjunct Paula's Neptune:
You dream big and beautiful dreams together and because you stimulate one another's faith, optimism, and idealism, you feel that anything is possible. If either or both of you tend to be impractical or irresponsible, being with one another will increase that propensity, and together you are likely to harbor unrealistic hopes or ungrounded, grandiose schemes and speculations. You may become sloppy or lazy together. On the other hand, if you are fairly disciplined and well-balanced people, you will encourage each other to take a leap of faith, and to push past previous limits and boundaries that you've set for yourselves. Traveling, enjoyable escapades, or spiritual quests are an important aspect of your relationship.
Jupiter Mutually Aspects Pluto:
Important changes or transformations in your understanding of life, your personal sense of meaning or faith, occur through your interaction and the things you do together.
Paula's Jupiter Sextile Tonya's Pluto,
Tonya's Jupiter Sextile Paula's Pluto:
Your faith and confidence in yourselves and in life deepens through your relationship with one another. You encourage one another to explore and develop your personal potential and to be more courageous in taking risks in your lives. Unusual coincidences and unexpected good fortune seem to come your way when the two of you are together.
Saturn Mutually Aspects Pluto:
You will both be changed, even transformed, if you have the courage to confront the difficulties that arise between you, though you may feel at times that it is quite a struggle.
Facing the dark, painful, or serious side of life is a focus in your relationship. Work, rather than play or skimming along on the surface of life, is emphasized and this may be inner, psychological "work" or some all-consuming personal ambition.
Paula's Saturn Opposition Tonya's Pluto:
Most likely there is a strong attraction-repulsion quality between the two of you, and it may be difficult for you to totally relax, surrender control, or completely trust one another.
Try to avoid becoming overly serious, intense, and heavy when you are together.
Tonya's Saturn Trine Paula's Pluto:
Your relationship has a deep, intense, or serious quality, as if it is impossible for you to relate to one another only on a superficial social level. It is easy for you to get to essentials with one another. Together you are capable of great commitment and dedication, and of overcoming tremendous obstacles.
Tonya's Sun Sextile Paula's Uranus:
There is a light-hearted, buoyant quality to your relationship that makes you really enjoy each other's company. You spark each other's sense of humor and you enjoy joking and "horsing around" with each other. You also appreciate each other's creative interests and encourage each other to pursue original, creative activities. Tonya especially feels freer and less inhibited by being with Paula.
Tonya's Moon Trine Paula's Uranus:
There is an upbeat, enthusiastic, spontaneous quality to your relationship. You spark each other's imagination, creativity, and wit. You feel loose and uninhibited with each other, and you enjoy exploring life and sharing new experiences.
Tonya's Moon Trine Paula's Pluto:
The two of you will grow to be very close friends. You are able to really "feel" what the other is saying. For example, whether you are playing sports, watching a movie, or showing each other something you really like, you find that most often you can do it with an intensity and depth of feeling that you cannot express to most people.
Tonya's Mercury Trine Paula's Jupiter:
Communication is open and harmonious. You are able to help each other incorporate new ideas and expand your perspective. If you have a close, long-lasting friendship, you will develop similar political, social, and philosophical views. Your overall beliefs and aims are in harmony. If you have a business relationship, you will do well in areas that involve long-distance communication, such as advertising, publishing, etc.
Paula's Mercury Sextile Tonya's Mercury:
Stimulating, interesting conversations are frequent. This ease of communication and your complementary interests makes your conversations enjoyable and enlightening.
Paula's Mercury Sextile Tonya's Neptune:
You have a strong intuitive and psychic rapport, and you often sense what is on each other's minds well before any words are spoken. You also enjoy discussing topics that have a strong imaginative or mystical element, such as the arts, music, philosophy, etc.
Tonya's Venus Square Paula's Mars:
When the two of you disagree, Tonya is the harmonizer and peace-maker, quicker to restore the affection and friendship between you, and less inclined to focus on your differences, while Paula wants to clear the air, get everything out into the open, and is more apt to force issues. Paula's assertiveness sometimes irritates Tonya. If you spend much time together, this can be a tempestuous relationship.
Paula's Mars Square Tonya's Jupiter:
The two of you enjoy planning and designing methods for achieving success. You encourage each other to achieve your dreams and Tonya frequently points out new avenues and grander vistas for Paula's talents and energy. However, the propensity to speculation and unrealistic optimism is also very strong, and many of your joint ventures are likely to prove wasteful, poorly timed, or extravagant.
Paula's Mars Sextile Tonya's Mars:
You are able to work together very harmoniously and complement each other's efforts. You coordinate well on tackling daily chores and you are able to accomplish a great deal in almost any joint effort. A friendly rivalry spurs you both on in your individual efforts, also.
Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Sun Opposition Saturn:
Whatever you get in this relationship comes to you through hard work, struggle, and a willingness to endure through hardships and overcome some daunting odds. Often when you try to do things together, you come right up against a massive brick wall. This may consist of restrictive outer circumstances, your own fears and insecurities, or a combination of the two. You inhibit one another, often out of fear or a desire for security.
One of you plays the "heavy" in the other's experience, or through no fault or intention of your own, could become an oppressive or limiting factor in the other's life.
If there are other factors drawing you together which ameliorate these conditions, your friendship can strengthen you both, but it will never be an easy relationship.
Composite Moon Sextile Venus:
A soft, caring, nurturing friendship will grow between you. A willingness to be there for one another, and a desire to protect each other are an essential part of your purpose together, easing many of the problems or difficulties you face in your lives. You feel like "family" and may well be part of a comfortable family of friends (and/or relatives).
Composite Jupiter Quincunx Saturn:
Last minute changes of plans, based on doubts, fears, or simply a need to be certain of all details, will occur quite frequently in your relationship. Whether it is in regard to travels, signing legal documents or just about any joint endeavor, one of you will freeze up, balk, hesitate or reconsider at the last minute. Outer circumstances beyond the control of either of you will also intervene. No doubt these things will sorely try your patience and good will, but a grin-and-bear-it attitude is about the only way to meet them. Mostly they are minor frustrations and delays, not insurmountable obstacles.
Composite Jupiter Conjunct Pluto:
Through your friendship with one another, your basic beliefs, philosophy of life, and faith may fundamentally alter, or you develop much deeper convictions and beliefs. If you join forces, you could even become overly zealous and evangelical, or you may become extremely and inordinately ambitious. This relationship is destined to strengthen, for each of you, your faith in yourselves and your sense of purpose in life. The only caveat is not to blow out of proportion the importance of your goals, achievements, values, and contributions to society.
Composite Saturn Quincunx Pluto:
The two of you will face difficult major transitions in life together. A death in the family or other major loss, a divorce, or other major turning point in life will face one, or both, of you during your friendship. If you can assist one another during difficult times and unexpected setbacks, you will help one another to be stronger people and achieve a greater level of success and fulfillment.
Other Themes in Your Relationship
Paula's Sun Conjunct Tonya's Pluto:
You draw out each other's deepest, hidden feelings, drives, needs, and ambitions. The uncovering of your inner needs and hopes is likely to cause both of you to undergo some major personality changes. You share a deep, inner bond; this is not a light or superficial relationship. You may go on a crusade together and jointly pursue shared interests with unusual intensity and dedication.
Tonya's Sun Sextile Paula's Pluto:
Paula is a profound and positive force in Tonya's life, encouraging, promoting, and challenging Tonya to dig deeper, to bring forth more of Tonya's creativity and talent, and to experience life more authentically, directly, and intensely. You have a deep friendship and are able to reveal yourselves quite honestly with one another.
Tonya's Moon Square Paula's Mars:
You tend to become impatient and inconsiderate to each other. This relationship will work only if both of you are tough-skinned and do not get your feelings hurt easily. You are capable of achieving much together and you can motivate each other, but guard against the tendency to be impatient and try to force things prematurely. Avoid also the tendency to be pushy with each other.
Tonya's Mercury Trine Paula's Saturn:
You work together well on practical problems. You help each other refine and clarify your ideas, and help "edit" each other's work. Consequently you make a very effective team in business affairs and important or exacting work.
Tonya's Venus Conjunct Paula's Neptune:
Subjects such as theater, poetry, and music are likely to arise frequently when you get together. If you share an interest in similar artistic styles, you will find that this relationship enhances the artistic appreciation and sensitivity of both of you.
Paula's Mars Square Tonya's Saturn:
In your friendship, Paula is the eager, passionate, active and impulsive one, and Tonya frequently puts on the brakes or tries to control, play down, and restrain Paula's desires and drives. Paula is likely to feel very frustrated, angry or discouraged if Tonya expresses disapproval or caution too often, and this can be a source of considerable friction between you. Tonya feels overwhelmed and envious of Paula's intensity and assertiveness, but instead of trying to hold Paula down, Tonya should confront the fears and inhibitions that Paula's directness evokes.
Tonya's Saturn Opposition Paula's Neptune:
Through your relationship you will both have to face aspects of yourselves and of life that may be quite difficult for you to accept.
Whatever self-deception, unrealistic or overblown fantasies, avoidance, escapist patterns, or dependence upon false security that you have within you will surface, and there are likely to be periods of intense doubt and questioning as you struggle to see and respond to life more honestly. Sometimes you will feel that you are on a see-saw, with Tonya being the cautious, skeptical, and pragmatic realist and Paula being the one whose religious beliefs, spiritual aspirations and values, or imagination and fantasies are being judged or put to the test. Tonya may feel subtly undermined or afraid of Paula's mystical or irrational approach to life. The balance between spiritual values (or illusions and fantasies) versus practical limitations is an important dynamic in your relationship.
Tonya's Saturn Trine Paula's Uranus:
Paula loosens Tonya up and prevents Tonya from becoming too rigid and tight, encouraging Tonya to make changes and take more leaps into the unknown. Tonya has a steadying effect on Paula and helps Paula organize and direct Paula's energies into clear, definite channels, encouraging Paula to be more reliable and constant.